My name is Susie Q and I will be blogging about the troubles that my marriage has faced. My husband and I have been married for two years but we had been Jr. High sweet hearts. Nothing could separate us. We were always in love there were just some complications.
I just found out that my husband has been looking at children. Not only is this the first step to perversion, but the children that he had been trying to pursue were my 13 years old sister and my 13 year old soon to be step sister. I am devastated and shocked that this could be happening. I don't know what to do. I have only know about this for about two weeks. To make things worse I am out of the country so I had to hear all of this over the phone from my husband, my father, and my soon to be step mother.
I will be posting more information on the next post.
I just found out that my husband has been looking at children. Not only is this the first step to perversion, but the children that he had been trying to pursue were my 13 years old sister and my 13 year old soon to be step sister. I am devastated and shocked that this could be happening. I don't know what to do. I have only know about this for about two weeks. To make things worse I am out of the country so I had to hear all of this over the phone from my husband, my father, and my soon to be step mother.
I will be posting more information on the next post.
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Hi Susie -
I just happened upon your blog when getting mine up and running. http://forinnocence.blogspot.com/
My only advice to you would be to RUN as fast as you can. Child predators don't change. There is no rehabilitation for them. It would be like trying to make someone that is heterosexual become homosexual or vice verse. He obviously has a sickness. You need to KNOW that this has NOTHING to do with you. It is nothing you did or didn't do. It is him. His mind, his desires, his problem. You deserve more than that. And no - there is no hope of ever having kids with him. The last thing you would want to do is give him free and unlimited access to the one thing he lusts after. Seek God for comfort and wisdom. I know what He says about divorce but this is an exception. There is no condemnation in Christ. He will see you through this. Just trust in Him!!
Isaiah 43:1-2 (NIV) says:
"But now, this is what the LORD says— he who created you, O Jacob, he who formed you, O Israel: 'Fear not, for I have redeemed you; I have summoned you by name; you are mine. When you pass through the waters, I will be with you; and when you pass through the rivers, they will not sweep over you. When you walk through the fire, you will not be burned; the flames will not set you ablaze'."
Never give up on God because He will never give up on you!!
God bless you and I wish you the best. Laura
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